Tired of Feeling Like Nothing Ever Changes—No Matter How Hard You Try?
Even the strongest, most committed couples find themselves stuck in painful, repetitive fights.
Not because they don’t love each other—
but because they’ve never been shown how to heal the real issues underneath.
So you try to...
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Communicate better—but still feel misunderstood
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Avoid conflict—but still feel tension building
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Start fresh—but always circle back to the same arguments
You’re not alone. And you’re not failing.
Here’s the truth:
✔ The more you fight, the more connected you actually are.
✔ Because conflict isn't the problem—it's a signal.
A signal that there's pain, fear, and unmet needs beneath the surface.
But traditional couples therapy often gets it wrong.
It focuses on managing the symptoms (like communication skills)...
Instead of healing the root: Feeling unseen. Unloved. Unimportant.
These fights aren’t really about what’s on the surface.
They’re about the emotional injuries no one taught you how to repair.
We Do Things Differently—And It Works
That’s exactly what we do inside our 3-month coaching intensive.
We don’t just manage conflict.
We help you eliminate the need for it - by healing what’s underneath.
✔ You’ll learn why the same fight keeps happening—and how to stop it
✔ You’ll stop reacting from past pain and start responding with clarity
✔ You’ll feel safe enough to be fully yourself—and deeply loved for it
And we do this without years of therapy.
Our science-backed approach rewires the way you connect in just 90 days.
We Succeed Where Therapy Fails
The Research On Couples Therapy...
🚫 85% of couples say therapy fails them (Roesler, 2020)
🚫 Therapy doesn’t create long-term change because it never addresses the root cause of conflicts (Carrol et al., 2021)
🚫 95% of therapists admit they weren’t properly trained to handle the complexities of intimate relationships (Pentel & Baucom, 2021)
🚫 There’s no universal, healthy definition of intimacy (Rober et al., 2015)
🚫 Bad couples therapy can actually lead to immediate divorce or separation (Fraenkel, 2019)
We Go Straight To The Root of Your Conflict
Most therapy stays on the surface. We dive deep into the emotional patterns and stored pain that drive every fight.
✔ We don’t just talk it out—we help you resolve it.
Learn how your nervous system, trauma, and unspoken fears are fueling the conflict.
✔ You’ll finally feel understood and safe to be yourself.
We create emotional safety that makes real repair and intimacy possible.
✔ You will stop the conflict even before it starts.
You will learn the ultimate relationship ritual that will stop conflict from happening.
We Reveal The Hard Truths You Both Must Address
At the heart of every conflict are the real answers to the relationship. We help you uncover it, heal it, and rebuild from it.
✔ You’ll define how each of you gives and receives love.
So you stop missing each other and start meeting each other’s needs clearly.
✔ You’ll uncover the past pain you brought into the relationship.
And stop blaming each other for wounds that started long before you met.
✔ You’ll build connection through safety, love, and emotional understanding—like never before.
Not just communication, but true bonding that lasts.
OUR PROCESS
NEUROBONDINGPRACTICE™
We use cutting-edge neuroscience by blending four powerful therapy models into one system. It rewires how you relate—not just as a couple, but as individuals.
THE B.I.T.C.H. METHOD™
Our signature ritual helps you stop conflict before it starts by getting to the root of your triggers in real time.
LOVE CORE VALUES™
We help you define how each of you gives and receives love, so you’re finally aligned instead of missing each other emotionally.
Crafted with care, designed to meet you where you are and guide you to where you want to be.
THE PAST PAIN PROFILE™
You’ll heal the pain from your past and repair the present harm between you and your partner—
so you can finally become true sources of support for one another.
REAL CHANGE, REAL FAST
No more years of trial-and-error therapy - just a proven, science-backed approach that gets to the root and actually works.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS
Join our Facebook community of like-minded couples and individuals having the real conversations, doing the real work, and building deep, lasting intimacy—just like you.
Our Signature Framework
THE ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP RITUAL
A revolutionary framework rooted in Neurobonding Practices, The B.I.T.C.H. Method helps you break the cycle of repeated conflicts by taking full accountability for the pain you bring into the relationship.
This process unfolds in two essential cycles:
Accountability for Your Own Pain
Recognizing how your emotions, wounds, and past experiences shape your reactions in conflict.
Resolving the Conflict in a Healthy Way
Addressing the actual issue from a place of emotional safety, instead of repeating destructive patterns.
👇 Each letter in B.I.T.C.H. represents a crucial step toward emotional mastery:
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B.
Boundaries
Setting emotional limits that foster safety and deeper intimacy
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Instincts
Learning to trust your inner wisdom instead of reacting from fear or past pain
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Choice
Choosing growth over reaction, stepping out of old patterns that keep you stuck
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Honor the Lesson
Embracing conflict as an opportunity for healing instead of repeating toxic cycles
When you master The B.I.T.C.H. Method, conflict stops controlling you—and your relationship flourishes in ways you never imagined possible.
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YOUR TRUSTED COACH
I’m Dr. Glen Hong, founder of Glen Hong Institute, where I help individuals and couples break toxic relationship cycles, heal past wounds, and build deeply fulfilling partnerships.
With a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and a Master’s in Social Work, I’ve spent over 25 years as a Professor, Researcher, Clinician, and Coach. But my greatest accomplishment came from overcoming my own marital struggles.
I learned firsthand that traditional therapy wasn’t enough. I had to confront the wounds I brought into my relationship, take full responsibility, and transform into the partner I wanted to be.
Now, I help others do the same—so they can break unhealthy cycles, heal for good, and create relationships that don’t just survive, but thrive.
WHY TRUST ME?
25＋
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LIVES
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WHAT MY CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT WORKING WITH ME
Andrea
Stylist & Business Owner
“I made more progress in 3 months than I did in 20 years of therapy. The self-awareness and acceptance I’ve gained are a life-altering experience! —this program is truly a gift.”
Joe & Grace
Surgeon & Business Owner
“As a physician, I call Dr. Glen a ‘relationship surgeon.’ In weeks, he uncovered what years of therapy couldn’t. We discovered Love Core Values we never even knew we shared - and finally understood our deeper patterns. Worth every bit of the investment.”
LOVE STRONGER, HEAL DEEPER
WHAT'S YOUR RELATIONSHIP CONFLICT STYLE?
You're not broken—and neither is your relationship. But if you keep having the same fights, shutting down, or feeling unseen… there is a reason.
This 2-minute quiz helps you uncover your default conflict style, the hidden emotional wound driving it, and one small shift to break the cycle—for good.
Ready to find out what’s really going on underneath your conflict?
FAQ - FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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What if my partner isn’t willing to change?Change starts with you. When you shift the way you respond to conflict—by taking accountability, setting boundaries, and showing up with clarity—your entire dynamic begins to change. Whether the relationship heals or you gain the clarity to move on, you will no longer feel stuck.
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Is this program trauma-informed?Yes. With a doctorate in Clinical Psychology and over 25 years of experience, I’ve designed this program through a trauma-informed lens. Every tool and session prioritizes emotional regulation, nervous system safety, and deep respect for your personal story. This is not about blaming or fixing—it’s about healing and growing from the inside out.
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What if I’ve already tried everything?That probably means you’ve only addressed the surface. This program works because we don’t treat the fights as the problem—we treat them as the portal to your healing. If you’re truly ready to stop repeating painful cycles and start creating the relationship you deserve, you will experience something entirely different.
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Does this program support individuals in abusive relationships?No. This program is not appropriate for anyone currently experiencing domestic violence, coercion, manipulation, or emotional/physical abuse. If you are in an unsafe situation, your first priority is protection—not relational healing. Please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 for 24/7, confidential support. You are not alone.
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How much time do I need to commit each week?You’ll want to dedicate 2–3 hours per week, including your live coaching session and personal integration work. This is a transformational process, and the more you engage, the deeper the results.
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What happens after I apply?Once you apply, you'll receive a follow-up email with a brief questionnaire. If it's a strong fit, we'll schedule a discovery call to determine the best path forward—individual or couples coaching. As soon as you accepted, your transformational journey begins immediately.
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How do I apply?Spots are limited due to the personalized nature of this work. If you’re ready to stop repeating painful patterns and start building the relationship (and self) you’ve always wanted:
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What if my partner isn’t willing to change?Change starts with you. When you shift the way you respond to conflict—by taking accountability, setting boundaries, and showing up with clarity—your entire dynamic begins to change. Whether the relationship heals or you gain the clarity to move on, you will no longer feel stuck.
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Is this program trauma-informed?Yes. With a doctorate in Clinical Psychology and over 25 years of experience, I’ve designed this program through a trauma-informed lens. Every tool and session prioritizes emotional regulation, nervous system safety, and deep respect for your personal story. This is not about blaming or fixing—it’s about healing and growing from the inside out.
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What if I’ve already tried everything?That probably means you’ve only addressed the surface. This program works because we don’t treat the fights as the problem—we treat them as the portal to your healing. If you’re truly ready to stop repeating painful cycles and start creating the relationship you deserve, you will experience something entirely different.
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Does this program support individuals in abusive relationships?No. This program is not appropriate for anyone currently experiencing domestic violence, coercion, manipulation, or emotional/physical abuse. If you are in an unsafe situation, your first priority is protection—not relational healing. Please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 for 24/7, confidential support. You are not alone.
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How much time do I need to commit each week?You’ll want to dedicate 2–3 hours per week, including your live coaching session and personal integration work. This is a transformational process, and the more you engage, the deeper the results.
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What happens after I apply?Once you apply, you'll receive a follow-up email with a brief questionnaire. If it's a strong fit, we'll schedule a discovery call to determine the best path forward—individual or couples coaching. As soon as you accepted, your transformational journey begins immediately.
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How do I apply?Spots are limited due to the personalized nature of this work. If you’re ready to stop repeating painful patterns and start building the relationship (and self) you’ve always wanted:
